On 22 Nov 1802 when Charlotte was 21, she married William Boswell SELDEN in Baltimore, Maryland, USA. Born on 31 Aug 1772 in Hampton, Virginia, USA. William Boswell died on 14 Jul 1849; he was 76. Buried abt 1849 in Cedar Grove Cemetery, Norfolk, Virginia, USA.

From the book Robert Colgate the Immigrant:
- Son of Mary Ann Hancock (d 1800) of Princess Anne County, Virginia, and Rev. William Selden (1741-1783), an Episcpal minister at Hampton Virginia who was ordained by the Bishop of London on 10 Mar 1771.
- William Boswell Selden was a very prominent physician. He was educated at Philadelphia Pennsylvania, and at Edinburgh Scotland, and settled in Norfolk Virginia in 1798. His first home was on Catherine Street, and about 1805 he built a country home which he named “Shelden’s Point” on the Elizabeth River, now the soiuthwest corner of Freemason and Botetourt Streets. Though originally suburban, it is now in the commercial part of the city and adjoins the piers of ocean-going vessels. This home was still occupied by descendants of the family in 1941.
- William Boswell Selden’s will was probated in Norfolk on 23 Jul 1849

On 23 Apr 1811 when William was 28, he married Mary GILBERT in New York City, New York, USA. Born on 25 Dec 1788 in London, England. Mary died in 22 East 23rd Street, New York City, NY, USA, on 5 Mar 1855; she was 66. Buried abt 1855 in Lot 2150, Greenwood Cemetery, New York, USA.

- Mary was the English born daughter of Edward Gilbert, who came to America in 1796 when Mary was 8 years old. The Gilberts had settled near Middletown NY adjoining the famr at Andes where William’s father eventually settled. Her brother Edward Gilbert the younger, had a son Colgate Gilbert who married Martha Colgate Austen, “Patty”. Several sons of another brother Joshua Gilbert, were active in the Colgate Starch Works, among whom was John Gilbert.

On 8 Oct 1812 when Bowles was 23, he married Lourina TOWNSEND in Andes, Delaware County, New York, USA. Born on 29 Dec 1791 in Middletown, New York, USA. Lourina died in 59 East 16th Street, New York City, NY, USA, on 15 Aug 1868; she was 76. Buried abt 1868 in Lot 6324, Greenwood Cemetery, New York, USA.

- Daughter of Gilbert and Abigail Mead Townsend of Middletown, NY and granddaughter of John and Jemima Travis Townsend of Dutchess County NY.
- After her husband’s death in 1845 she moved from Dutch Street to 59 East 16th Street NY where she lived until her death

On 30 Jul 1811 when Esther was 20, she married Jacob KLEIN in Norfolk, Virginia, USA. Born on 9 Feb 1777 in Albany, New York, USA. Jacob died in New Orleans, Louisiana, USA, in 1833; he was 55. Buried abt 1833 in Cedar Grove Cemetery, Norfolk, Virginia, USA.

- Described by his future brother-in-law Dr William Boswell Seldon:
“Mr. Klein has resided among us five or six years; during that time he has conducted himself with much propriety and his character stands fair with his friends. He is engaged in various mercantile pursuits, in the smsall way, and appears to be frugal and industrious and has talents well suited to business. With this view of his character there is reason to hope our sister will do well. He came from New York to this place with a store of dry goods; that business has since declined. His father is a farmer somewhere on the North River.”

On 8 Oct 1817 when John was 22, he married Abigail JESSUP in Colchester, Delaware, New York, USA. Born on 14 Feb 1800. Abigail died on 28 Nov 1843; she was 43. Buried abt 1843 in Harsimus Cemeter, Jersey City, New Jersey, USA.

On 29 Dec 1824 when George was 27, he married Jane CAULDWELL in 429 Pearl Street, New York City, NY, USA. Born on 20 Feb 1803. Jane died in 29 East 22nd Street, New York, NY, USA, on 9 Sep 1869; she was 66.

- Daughter of Cornelius and Elizabeth Thompson Cauldwell of Birmingham England and later of New York CIty.

On 17 Jan 1827 when Charles was 21, he married Sarah STOKES. Born on 14 Sep 1805. Sarah died on 15 Nov 1872; she was 67. Buried abt 1872 in Lot 3361, Greenwood Cemetery, New York, USA.